Women. How do you make girls like you? I've had many conversations about that. Any red-blooded guy would love to have a bevy of beautiful babes bombarding his body. Thinking about such a scene made me want to be the best I could around women. I now have a 2-year relationship with the perfect woman.
I'm certainly not the GQ good-looker, but there's plenty to do to overcome that.
Lift your chin. Women go for personality over looks ninety-nine percent of the time. Ari Onassis landed Jackie O. He's not really a handsome man. But he landed one of the world's most charming and beautiful women. Take heart.
So what if you inherited a less than average set of genes. You have power in other areas:
Build your self-confidence to turn women's heads.
Self-confidence is a powerful tool. If you exude self-confidence, you've practically got a woman on your arm. What is self-confidence? How do I know if I have it? How do I get it if I don't feel like I have it? Be in, or get in,the habit of doing things that you are afraid to do. And knowing you're right. That's about it.
You don't have to be a Rhett Butler by this evening. Start with small things and it'll keep getting easier as you gain more of it. You face challenges. Get over them. Subdue them. Deal with them and your self-confidence will grow.
Get some life skills to get the girls.
“Skills?” you may ask. Yes, skills. Gals want guys who can do neat things. (It's no small thing to hack into a forbidden server, or excel at bow-hunting, or tune up a car, but those skills aren't exactly endearing to a woman's frame of mind.) Start developing some skills that will surprise or attract women in a positive way.
Learn how to cook. Learn how to dance. Learn a romance language. Learn to play the guitar. Have an interesting hobby. I once set up a small aquarium in a girl's apartment and she immediately fell in love with me. Being able to do things such as these will make you stand out in a crowd. Women like singularly talented men better than all the regular Joe's.
Flirting is fun and girls love it.
It's so important we even have a word for it alone – Flirt. Flirt as often as you can with as many as you can.
Flirt, but flirt well. Flirting is absolutely an art, a high skill. If you do it right, nothing else will make girls like you like this.
Flirting does have a couple of demands. It shouldn't be too serious. The lady you're flirting with should feel flattered.
Please, don't be a Neanderthal. Hollering at a lady and telling her she has a nice butt is just plain wrong. It's not flirting, because it fails on two counts: 1) since she probably doesn't know you, she's not going to take it seriously, 2) there's is no way a woman could feel good about herself when hollered at in this fashion, it is demeaning to her; and guys who act like this are basically animals with no manners.
Follow your heart and follow these guidelines, and you'll be making a lot of female friends before you know it. All these guidelines do is allow your personality to shine. As long as you have self-confidence, know how to do a few neat things, know how to flirt; you're going to do just fine with the girls.
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