Wednesday, June 23, 2010

How To Approach Girls Even If The Thought Terrifies You

Approaching girls is one of the biggest obstacles a guy faces when they see a girl they like. Approaching a girl is not an easy task. Before you approach a girl, it’s a good idea to get some confidence built up to overcome the anxiety of approaching a girl. When meeting girls, you have to know where you are going to meet them and what you’re going to say.

We can get into this problem by dissecting it one piece at a time.

How to approach girls with courage.

I can’t lie. It’s not easy for a lot of guys when it comes to talking to girls. Some guys don’t have this problem, making them very lucky. Talking with girls holds a lot of guys back from becoming successful with a woman.

Ask yourself, what is holding you back from approaching a girl. Do you think she will not find you attractive enough? Do you think she will find you boring? The problem is there, you just have to ask yourself what it is, and improve upon it.

If you feel that it’s your looks that’s holding you back, then work out more or find something better to wear. If you are not good at talking or sparking a conversation, create some small talk with strangers.

How to approach girls.

Finding girls can be rather difficult for guys. I don’t see how hard it is when talking with women, seeing that 50% of the earth is populated with them. The globe is covered with so many women. Finding them won’t be difficult, seeing as they need to buy groceries just like you, eat like you, go to work, etc.

The location plays a huge role when it comes to approaching girls. Finding that place is key. If it’s at a favorite restaurant or a book store, approaching a girl will be easier because you’ll have something in common.

If you join a group or a hobby club, it should be even easier to find a great reason to approach a girl. This will create an instant conversation.

Succeeding in approaching girls.

you feeling ready? There she is, across the room. What do you think you should do?

You need to have something to say. Find a good excuse to go up and talk to her Maybe she is wearing something that stands out, or something she is doing that catches your attention?

If you’re still drawing a blank, try thinking a little harder. If for some reason there is absolutely nothing that stands out about her, memorize some PUA openers and try them out.

If you know what to say and you’re feeling in a good mood, just go up and talk to her. Start talking to her and see if this is someone you would want to get to know better. After talking, get her number if she’s the kind of girl you’d like to get to know more.

These are my tips for approaching girls. With some practice you’ll see that approaching girls is actually pretty simple, so just go for it! It can change your life and boost your overall confidence. Meeting new people (especially attractive women) can be one of the most exciting things out there. That person you are talking to could be your next girlfriend.

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