Saturday, December 5, 2009

Where to Meet Girls

Where are all the women? Single men want to know. Sure, you can probably meet a few girls if you go out to bars or clubs. But the music is often so loud that you can barely have a conversation with anyone. That is why I like to meet girls elsewhere.

Here are a few places I like to meet women that aren't bars or clubs.

First, you need to spend more time out in public. You probably won't find any girls to date inside your house. Girls are out in the real world, eager to meet you.

You can find them all over. They need to do the same daily chores that you and I do. They go grocery shopping. They need to fill up their cars with fuel. They catch up with friends at the cafe down the street. They hit the gym. They stop by the deli near work for lunch. They grab the new bestseller at the bookstore.

The best way to meet girls is to simply get out of the house and go to places where you can run into a lot of people. Begin with something easy like taking your laptop to the coffee shop next time you have a project that you need to do. Or go out and get lunch once or twice a week at work instead of bringing your own. Go to a few festivals and events that are held in your area. Go on a little walk through your neighborhood.

Begin looking for excuses to leave your house and do things around your community.

Consider joining some clubs. Sure, there are singles organizations out there, but you can sign up with other clubs too. Try to find a few clubs for interests you a passionate about. Enroll in a painting class if you are interested in art. If you like the idea of living on your own in the wild, take some classes on wilderness survival. If you like writing, you might want to join a writers circle. Don't just join with groups to meet women, do it because you are authentically interested with the subject. The women and friends you meet should just be an extra incentive.

You already have a great conversation topic if you meet a woman at one of these meetings. Just start with "Hey, I'm new at this group. How to you like things here?".

You can also expand your social circle and make new platonic friends too. These new friends will likely know a few girls that you can meet through them too. What you are doing here is adding to your circle of friends. When you have tons of friends, getting a date will be easy. You will always know someone who knows a single woman that you can hook up with.

If you enjoyed this article you might also be interested in Where to Meet Girls, Internet Dating Guide, and Meet Girls on the Internet

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