Let's get down to brass tacks and look at a few of the specific techniques used by pick up artists to achieve dating success. There's nothing supernatural or magical about these routines - they're basically just stories that build you up into someone a woman wants to get to know better.
Don't worry - I'm not going to waste time rehashing some old, tired routines like "the cube" and "the jealous girlfriend." I'm going to go over a few of the newer routines here.
The Present Routine - This is a very creative routine that will help you to learn a great deal more about your "chosen" target.
It couldn't be easier - just go up to a group of girls and let them know that a business crisis called your buddy out of town unexpectedly. Tell them he called you when he landed and asked you to get his girlfriend a birthday gift for him - he asked you to spend up to $200 and he'll pay you back when he gets back. The thing is, you don't know what to get her, and so you're hoping they'll help out.
What's beautiful about this strategy is that the girls, whatever they suggest, will be revealing information about themselves. The girl who suggests a day at a spa is a girl who herself loves to be pampered, for instance. The girl who tells you to buy expensive perfumes and accessories, designer name things like Prada and Guess, is a girl who herself also likes those designer-name things. Especially if you're persistent and patient, and get the girls to think about their suggestions, this will give you incredibly valuable information. Imagine if one of the girls first tells you to buy a designer handbag, but her second suggestion is a book of poetry by a particular author.
Dating for Dummies - I've encountered a lot of different routines, and this is one of the funniest I've heard of. It's a great icebreaker and it helps women to feel really relaxed around you.
Can you find a book on dating called "Dating for Dummies" or something similarly stupid? Find it and buy it.
Carry it with you into places you'd expect to meet women, like clubs, taverns, or whatever. Open it up to the chapter about pickup lines you should never use.
Now you can have fun - go up to a woman you'd really like to meet, hold the book open in front of you, and start reading the bad pickup lines out loud. Don't be bashful, go for the gusto! The worse the line, the better it is for your purpose - look for "Do you come here often?" and "Hey there, baby, what's your sign?"
This ought to get you a few laughs - assuming she's got any sense of humor at all - and she'll let down her guard. You can even put on an innocent air and ask her if it "worked."
Okay, so these are just a couple of tried-and-true PUA routines that ought to help you get your foot in the door. Once you've got a conversation going, though, you can't let it stay at the question and answer level. You've got to make a connection. To establish rapport, you have to open up wo her, share something personal about yourself. Try a meaningful story about an incident at work, or maybe something that happened at school. You'll find that when you open up to women personally, they'll likewise open up to you, and you'll actually feel the connection building.
There are some PUA routines that basically involve lying about who you are. That's not my style, and I hope it's not yours, and so those routines aren't included here. I'm sure you've got friends who are constantly telling stories about things they've done, places they've been, and the like. You've probably done many of the same things and been to loads of different places yourself - so think of incidents in your life and travels that illustrate the sort of great guy you are and take the time to make good stories of them!
Your own life and experiences are always the very best foundation on which to build your own PUA routines. Sometimes, a little help is called for. Put the routines here to work - try them out yourself a few times and get a feel for them and for approaching women. Working with these PUA routines will give you a better insight into making your own routines from your own life experiences.
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