Beautiful Women - Where To Meet Them And How To Attract Them

It's almost universal - guys want to know how to meet beautiful women. I've learned a lot about beautiful women, and I'll share with you my knowledge of where you can go to meet them, and how to treat them after that.

You Can Meet Beautiful Women Here . . .

It's no secret - wherever you look, there are beautiful women. Here's one of those little-known facts - these stunning creatures aren't any different, really, from you or me. They must eat, sleep and go to work. They usually like to spend their time having fun from time to time, and they've got lives to lead that require the same things from that as are required of the rest of us.

Now, it is a fact that extremely beautiful women tend to gravitate to big cities. The reason is simple - opportunities abound in big cities. For instance, modeling and acting careers are easier to pursue in big cities. Likewise, since also attract the wealthy and successful, there's more opportunity to meet such men in big cities. Finally, cities are more active and exciting than most rural areas.

You're truly hunting beautiful women now - where can you find them? How about the places they might go to enhance and show off their beauty, or the places they might go to maintain their beauty and physical tone? To maintain their beauty, women go to the gym. To enhance their beauty, they buy fashionable clothing and accessories in trendy stores. Go to those places if you want to find beautiful women.

Pretty girls are easy to meet at a gym. Be ready to work out, and then go position yourself by one of the bench press machines. As soon as a girl comes by, tell her your workout buddy couldn't make it, and ask if she'll spot you while you do a few reps. She's doing you a big favor, so be certain to thank her when you're done, and of course introduce yourself. It's even okay to get her phone nubmer, but only if it feels right.

You can meet a beautiful woman in a department store as well - just look around and when you see one you'd love to meet, tell her you're looking for a birthday gift for your sister or cousin. She'll probably respond positively if you tell her she seems to have the same sense of understated elegance as your sister, and ask her to give you ideas about a gift like a sweater or similar item. During the time you're shopping together, you can carry on a nice conversation with her, small talk that will help you to get to know her better.

What's the Best Way to Behave When Meeting Beautiful Women?

Most men, when they're around beautiful women, get tongue-tied and act confused. They start acting macho, stupid. It's called "beauty vision." Remember - this is what most other guys out there do, so it's imperative that you stand out by being different!

Most importantly, you must be oblivious to the fact that she's gorgeous.

She knows she's beautiful and has known it for quite a while now. When you focus on something other than her looks, you send the signal that you're not so easily conquered. She may appreciate that you're clearly not just interested in her because of her looks, even if she feels a little uncomfortable with the idea that you're not so easily won over.

All you need to do is treat her like any other person you might run into during the course of the day. Realistically speaking, she probably doesn't often encounter men who don't fall all over themselves when they encounter her, and so the time your spend together will be somewhat of a rarity to her. At the same time, your immunity - your apparent immunity - to her beauty will set you apart from most other men, and she'll consider you something of a mystery. She'll be off-balance, because she'll appreciate being treated like a grownup women, but she'll also be wondering whether or not you even find her attractive at all! Even though she likes and appreciates the way you treat her, she'll feel the need to make certain she still has her power over men, and so she'll feel challenged by you.

Now you have a couple more ideas about where to meet beautiful women and, probably more importantly, how to act around them. This, though, must be remembered: she's so used to men acting stupidly around her that if you act like that, she's not going to take you seriously and you'll never have a chance to show her what a great guy you really are!

How To Build Strong Connections With Women - PUA Routines For Success

Let's get down to brass tacks and look at a few of the specific techniques used by pick up artists to achieve dating success. There's nothing supernatural or magical about these routines - they're basically just stories that build you up into someone a woman wants to get to know better.

Don't worry - I'm not going to waste time rehashing some old, tired routines like "the cube" and "the jealous girlfriend." I'm going to go over a few of the newer routines here.

The Present Routine - This is a very creative routine that will help you to learn a great deal more about your "chosen" target.

It couldn't be easier - just go up to a group of girls and let them know that a business crisis called your buddy out of town unexpectedly. Tell them he called you when he landed and asked you to get his girlfriend a birthday gift for him - he asked you to spend up to $200 and he'll pay you back when he gets back. The thing is, you don't know what to get her, and so you're hoping they'll help out.

What's beautiful about this strategy is that the girls, whatever they suggest, will be revealing information about themselves. The girl who suggests a day at a spa is a girl who herself loves to be pampered, for instance. The girl who tells you to buy expensive perfumes and accessories, designer name things like Prada and Guess, is a girl who herself also likes those designer-name things. Especially if you're persistent and patient, and get the girls to think about their suggestions, this will give you incredibly valuable information. Imagine if one of the girls first tells you to buy a designer handbag, but her second suggestion is a book of poetry by a particular author.

Dating for Dummies - I've encountered a lot of different routines, and this is one of the funniest I've heard of. It's a great icebreaker and it helps women to feel really relaxed around you.

Can you find a book on dating called "Dating for Dummies" or something similarly stupid? Find it and buy it.

Carry it with you into places you'd expect to meet women, like clubs, taverns, or whatever. Open it up to the chapter about pickup lines you should never use.

Now you can have fun - go up to a woman you'd really like to meet, hold the book open in front of you, and start reading the bad pickup lines out loud. Don't be bashful, go for the gusto! The worse the line, the better it is for your purpose - look for "Do you come here often?" and "Hey there, baby, what's your sign?"

This ought to get you a few laughs - assuming she's got any sense of humor at all - and she'll let down her guard. You can even put on an innocent air and ask her if it "worked."

Okay, so these are just a couple of tried-and-true PUA routines that ought to help you get your foot in the door. Once you've got a conversation going, though, you can't let it stay at the question and answer level. You've got to make a connection. To establish rapport, you have to open up wo her, share something personal about yourself. Try a meaningful story about an incident at work, or maybe something that happened at school. You'll find that when you open up to women personally, they'll likewise open up to you, and you'll actually feel the connection building.

There are some PUA routines that basically involve lying about who you are. That's not my style, and I hope it's not yours, and so those routines aren't included here. I'm sure you've got friends who are constantly telling stories about things they've done, places they've been, and the like. You've probably done many of the same things and been to loads of different places yourself - so think of incidents in your life and travels that illustrate the sort of great guy you are and take the time to make good stories of them!

Your own life and experiences are always the very best foundation on which to build your own PUA routines. Sometimes, a little help is called for. Put the routines here to work - try them out yourself a few times and get a feel for them and for approaching women. Working with these PUA routines will give you a better insight into making your own routines from your own life experiences.

How The Gurus Pick Up Women All The Time!

In his book The Game, Neil Strauss popularizes the Pick Up Artist (PUA). Many men worldwide have had their eyes opened by this impressive book and revitalized their dating lives. Whether you're new to dating, or feel you're pretty experienced, the tips laid out here should help you in your dating life.

Before looking at techniques, let me point out that there are really two different types of pick up artists. The first kind of PUA works hard at it, memorizing specific scenarios or tales to tell their prospective companions. These stories and routines are each intended to impress women and attract them to the PUA, and to ensure his success, he carefully crafts and polishes them. Mystery is the prime example of this kind of pick up artist.

The "natural game" is how Strauss characterizes the approach used by the second type of PUA. Success with women is achieved by putting his own natural charisma and personality into play. This fellow will approach women confidently, and his conversation will be spontaneous, natural, hence the label. A good example from The Game would be the PUA called “Juggler.”

There are advantages and disadvantages to each approach. My preferred approach is "natural game," but I've seen success achieved with both techniques. There's a lot of work involved in memorizing all that material. I find it far preferable to have a woman attracted to me because of my own wit and personality - who I really am - than to know she's attracted to me because of some tale I spun for her.

Regardless of the strategy you employ, though, remember this: concentrate on your inner game, the real you. The term "inner game" is how we label your core beliefs and especially your level of self-confidence. You see, it doesn't matter how many tips and routines you've memorized, or how many stories you've fabricated - if you feel shy and unattractive, you're really not very likely to approach a woman you find attractive. Conversely, if you have a high degree of self-confidence, you'll be able to approach pretty much any woman without fear of rejection.

Another pick up artist tip: take it easy. These things take time. Concentrate on the basics - your self-confidence, your inner game - and as these things improve, you'll find yourself with more women than you ever dreamed would be possible in your life! When you find something in your path - an obstacle that keeps you from being successful - you must concentrate specifically on overcoming that obstacle. Shyness was my obstacle. To overcome my shyness, I devised a special challenge for myself. I had to talk with 100 strangers every week. Overcoming the obstacles you encounter is a job only you can do - nobody's going to do it for you.

Of all the possible pick up artist tips I could offer, though, one of the best is simple: consistency. Once you've found a technique you're comfortable with, don't change. You might be familiar with the type - the fellow who buys a book, skims it, and then tries one or two pieces of advice, before giving up and turning to another book. After trying many approaches briefly, they'll denounce them all as ineffective. The fact is, though, that dating success was available to these guys if they'd simply stuck with a single approach and gave it an honest trial.

Thus, if you really want to achieve dating success, my final pick up artist tip is to find one technique that you're comfortable with, learn it thoroughly, and stick to it!

Don't Let Fear Keep You From Meeting Exciting Women!

Let's start at the beginning - you can't have a successful date if you can't ask her out! That's why it's absolutely crucial that you overcome your approach anxiety.

Some people think that approach anxiety can't actually be overcome. There are those who think that approach anxiety is heriditary - it came down to us from our ancestors. Approach anxiety can be overcome, insist others.

These are a couple of approaches that men have found useful in overcoming approach anxiety:

Approach Anxiety can be Overcome in 3 Seconds!

This concept can be implemented easily. The underlying assumption is this: the more you ponder whether or not to approach a woman, or how to, the more uncertain you become about it and the more unlikely it is you'll ever talk to her. To overcome this, act quickly - don't give the anxiety any time to develop! Within 3 seconds of seeing a woman you want to meet, approach her. To achieve success with the 3-second rule, you have to commit to using it all the time. Don't waste time or opportunities thinking up exceptions or excuses, though, or you won't have any time left for meeting wonderful women! Of course, reality rules: if circumstances absolutely forbid meeting her, such as when you're late for work or she's in the process of getting married, then you can let it go, but if you're in a social situation like a club, go for it!

Approach Anxiety can be Overcome with the Power of Money

This approach requires a wingman, but can be really successful in motivating you to get out there and meet exciting women. Sometimes, just having a buddy there watching is sufficient motivation - I mean, who wants to shame himself in front of his friends by being afraid to get out there and meet the women you really want to meet?

But if you need greater motivation, try this: give your wingman $100 in cash You get the money back - in chunks of $10 or $20, every time you approach a woman and actually talk with her. You have to talk beforehand to determine how much he gives you back each time, and if you get more for a longer talk. If you don't go out and meet women, then, you're going to go home broke!

Let's be frank, though. These are just two ways of dealing with the problem. Using these approaches doesn't end approach anxiety, it just helps overcome it for the night. To permanently remove approach anxiety from your makeup, you're going to have to put some time and effort into determining its root cause and dealing with that.

Despite the claims of those who claim that approach anxiety is hereditary, I think that it's a learned response.

I think that when all the extraneous stuff is swept aside, the one consistent factor influencing approach anxiety is shame.

Simply put, when you're experiencing approach anxiety, what you're really feeling at some level is shame. Perhaps you have unresolved issues about yourself, your appearance, your job, or something else, that embarrasses you and manifests itself as approach anxiety. Perhaps you think, subconsciously, that you don't really deserve to have an exciting woman like her in your life, and you feel ashamed of yourself for thinking of approaching her. It's hard to tell. No two people are alike, and it's not good to paint people with a broad brush.

Three Tips To Land The Girl Who's Out Of Your League

It's a matter of pride – every guy would love to attract a girl who is so hot people will shake their heads in disbelief.

Believe it or not, it can happen. I'm proof. It's a great feeling to wake up in the morning and wonder why. But, I quit wondering and just enjoyed.

Step 1: Slide On In

Take action. Start talking. If you're going to land one of those out-of-your-league girls. The girls hot, so she probably knows it. She doesn't have to ask guys out, they ask her.

Yeah, you have to do a little work. Fact of life. An attractive girl won't make a move. It's up to you to get in there and make the move.

Step 2: Go Ahead and Ask

“How does he do it?” the other guys will ask. You've made the move and now you two are talking. Keep things moving, keep her talking. The more you can get her to talk, the easier things get.

Hopefully you've thought of something interesting to do with her. So, go ahead and ask. Tell her about it. Tell her you'd like to share it with her. Ask her out. You don't have to put on the dog. But do be creative. McDonalds isn't creative. Check out a museum. Go to an amusement park.

Don't be too busy or not busy enough when you go out. Movies – not good. You sit in the dark and don't talk. You need a chance to get to know each other, to flirt.

Step 3: Now You've Got Her

You want her to be your girl. She knows you like her, so show her how much. Otherwise, she'll move on down the line. You think she's hot, let her know. Otherwise, you'll end up being a confidant and not a boy friend.

Now's not the time to be timid. You need to be bold, confident, take the lead. Women love that show of masculinity. Now you need to take some risks. Kiss her. Or tell her exactly how you feel about her without mincing words. “Sexy.” That's the word. Tell her you think she's sexy.

Platonic? No way. Not if you tell her you think she's sexy. She'll know that you want more than brotherly love.

The girl may be out of your league, but you can probably get her by following these guidelines. Forget fear. Forget rejection. Take action. That's all it takes. You know, someone's got to date these hot girls. Why shouldn't it be you?

How to Let a Woman Know You Like Her

Need to know how to let a girl know you like her? Never try to approach the situation rationally or try to explain it to her – A great deal of men will sit down and jot down a whole speech virtually and run through it in order to say it perfectly. Then they connect with her and have this serious talk where they tell the woman just how they feel for her. In many cases the man will be so nervous the whole time that his romantic statement will only seem awkward or weird.

There are two good reasons why this is the reverse of what you should be doing.

The first downside to doing things this way is that you are getting at it from the state of mind that you must persuade her into liking you. This type of behavior is just one other way of trying to win her over and show her what an excellent man you are. You're still putting her up on a pedestal and that's just not appealing to girls.. It's okay to just like a woman without having to justify it.

Secondly, you're so trapped in your mind going through your speech that you're not honestly there with the woman. You're lost in your own thoughts, which really is not attractive to girls at all. Do the opposite of this and actually be there fully with her.

You are probably thinking this is all hippy-dippy junk, but you'd be amazed at how very true this is. You can start practicing this by focusing on your body. Can you feel how your feet are resting on the floor or how the shirt you're wearing feels against your skin? Or what about that soothing feeling in your chest when you see the woman? I hope you can start to understand why this is so vital when you're talking to women?

I hope you are starting to understand this.

So, that is what you aren't supposed to do, but what can you do to let her know that you don't just want to be friends? Here is how to let a girl know you like her the right way.

An SOI is a term that is short for Statement of Intent. This term is employed by Pickup Artists (PUA's). The term was coined by Wayne Elise (otherwise known as "Juggler") and is really just a straightforward way to let a girl know that you think she is sexy. A rudimentary SOI should go like this:

Her: I have another two hour rehearsal tonight for my major dance performance on Friday.

You: I really think it's sexy how committed and passionate you are about your performance.

By telling her that she is "sexy" you are giving a quite strong but sophisticated message to her that you do not just want to simply be friends with her. It is a very fine item, but this lets the girl know that she can move forward and start hitting on you. Basically do this casualy and do not try to make it into some sort of major thing. The point here is to be sophisticated. Don't worry, she won't miss it.

There is one other way to let a girl know that you like her, which is to just be straightforward and frank about it.

For instance, maybe you could be spending time with her and one of those quiet moments descends on the both of you. You need to do what a man does at this point and simply take her and say something such as "I really want to kiss you right now." You will need to follow this up by kissing her. Not a peck on the cheek, but a genuine kiss. This takes a certain amount of courage, but girls really like it if you do this.

The essential difference between this and the awkward, worried strategy above, is that, to begin with, it is not some sort of rehearsed plan that you just sort of fumble through. And secondly, this is a rather manly move to make. You're really telling her you want to kiss her, not "sort of kind of" asking her if she would like to watch a movie. You are fully secure with your desires. This sort of action also shows her you have lots of follow through and you pursue your goals. Girls really think this is attractive.

So, that is how to let a girl know you like her. The essential component here is to make certain it is relaxed and never some type of problem. When you just act like it is the most normal and natural thing there is, she will treat it so and follow suit.

Want Girls To Like You? Try These Three Ways

Women. How do you make girls like you? I've had many conversations about that. Any red-blooded guy would love to have a bevy of beautiful babes bombarding his body. Thinking about such a scene made me want to be the best I could around women. I now have a 2-year relationship with the perfect woman.

I'm certainly not the GQ good-looker, but there's plenty to do to overcome that.

Lift your chin. Women go for personality over looks ninety-nine percent of the time. Ari Onassis landed Jackie O. He's not really a handsome man. But he landed one of the world's most charming and beautiful women. Take heart.

So what if you inherited a less than average set of genes. You have power in other areas:

Build your self-confidence to turn women's heads.

Self-confidence is a powerful tool. If you exude self-confidence, you've practically got a woman on your arm. What is self-confidence? How do I know if I have it? How do I get it if I don't feel like I have it? Be in, or get in,the habit of doing things that you are afraid to do. And knowing you're right. That's about it.

You don't have to be a Rhett Butler by this evening. Start with small things and it'll keep getting easier as you gain more of it. You face challenges. Get over them. Subdue them. Deal with them and your self-confidence will grow.

Get some life skills to get the girls.

“Skills?” you may ask. Yes, skills. Gals want guys who can do neat things. (It's no small thing to hack into a forbidden server, or excel at bow-hunting, or tune up a car, but those skills aren't exactly endearing to a woman's frame of mind.) Start developing some skills that will surprise or attract women in a positive way.

Learn how to cook. Learn how to dance. Learn a romance language. Learn to play the guitar. Have an interesting hobby. I once set up a small aquarium in a girl's apartment and she immediately fell in love with me. Being able to do things such as these will make you stand out in a crowd. Women like singularly talented men better than all the regular Joe's.

Flirting is fun and girls love it.

It's so important we even have a word for it alone – Flirt. Flirt as often as you can with as many as you can.

Flirt, but flirt well. Flirting is absolutely an art, a high skill. If you do it right, nothing else will make girls like you like this.

Flirting does have a couple of demands. It shouldn't be too serious. The lady you're flirting with should feel flattered.

Please, don't be a Neanderthal. Hollering at a lady and telling her she has a nice butt is just plain wrong. It's not flirting, because it fails on two counts: 1) since she probably doesn't know you, she's not going to take it seriously, 2) there's is no way a woman could feel good about herself when hollered at in this fashion, it is demeaning to her; and guys who act like this are basically animals with no manners.

Follow your heart and follow these guidelines, and you'll be making a lot of female friends before you know it. All these guidelines do is allow your personality to shine. As long as you have self-confidence, know how to do a few neat things, know how to flirt; you're going to do just fine with the girls.